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I am working in a company for 2 years now. The owner is my father in law. Last year I was having money problems. My father in law trusts me a lot, so I was able to steal some money from the company in a way that nobody knows where that money has gone.



But now I really fell regret on my act and I want to return that money to my boss. But I worry that when my father in law comes to know that I was a thief, it may harm my family relationship. Maybe he can also stuck off me from from the company. So what should I do?










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    I fixed the grammar in your question to make it more understandable. However, there is still one sentence I don't understand: "Maybe he can also stuck off my know from the company". What do you mean with that?
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    Yikes. You might be better off just leaving things as they are. Does your spouse know what you did?
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    does your father in law know that something was stolen? This will affect the possibilities you have
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    This may be worth getting an opinion from law.SE on what liability you've got, and the best way to protect yourself. I'm not sure losing his trust is the biggest worry you should have about being caught.
    – Bilkokuya
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  • Why did you steal? Not that it is ever allowed to steal, but some people steal for profit, some for survival, some for their kids to eat.
    – Zorkolot
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I am working in a company for 2 years now. The owner is my father in law. Last year I was having money problems. My father in law trusts me a lot, so I was able to steal some money from the company in a way that nobody knows where that money has gone.



But now I really fell regret on my act and I want to return that money to my boss. But I worry that when my father in law comes to know that I was a thief, it may harm my family relationship. Maybe he can also stuck off me from from the company. So what should I do?










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    I fixed the grammar in your question to make it more understandable. However, there is still one sentence I don't understand: "Maybe he can also stuck off my know from the company". What do you mean with that?
    – Philipp
    yesterday






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    Yikes. You might be better off just leaving things as they are. Does your spouse know what you did?
    – Joe Strazzere
    yesterday








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    does your father in law know that something was stolen? This will affect the possibilities you have
    – LaughU
    yesterday






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    This may be worth getting an opinion from law.SE on what liability you've got, and the best way to protect yourself. I'm not sure losing his trust is the biggest worry you should have about being caught.
    – Bilkokuya
    yesterday










  • Why did you steal? Not that it is ever allowed to steal, but some people steal for profit, some for survival, some for their kids to eat.
    – Zorkolot
    yesterday













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But now I really fell regret on my act and I want to return that money to my boss. But I worry that when my father in law comes to know that I was a thief, it may harm my family relationship. Maybe he can also stuck off me from from the company. So what should I do?










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I am working in a company for 2 years now. The owner is my father in law. Last year I was having money problems. My father in law trusts me a lot, so I was able to steal some money from the company in a way that nobody knows where that money has gone.



But now I really fell regret on my act and I want to return that money to my boss. But I worry that when my father in law comes to know that I was a thief, it may harm my family relationship. Maybe he can also stuck off me from from the company. So what should I do?







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    I fixed the grammar in your question to make it more understandable. However, there is still one sentence I don't understand: "Maybe he can also stuck off my know from the company". What do you mean with that?
    – Philipp
    yesterday






  • 4




    Yikes. You might be better off just leaving things as they are. Does your spouse know what you did?
    – Joe Strazzere
    yesterday








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    does your father in law know that something was stolen? This will affect the possibilities you have
    – LaughU
    yesterday






  • 1




    This may be worth getting an opinion from law.SE on what liability you've got, and the best way to protect yourself. I'm not sure losing his trust is the biggest worry you should have about being caught.
    – Bilkokuya
    yesterday










  • Why did you steal? Not that it is ever allowed to steal, but some people steal for profit, some for survival, some for their kids to eat.
    – Zorkolot
    yesterday














  • 1




    I fixed the grammar in your question to make it more understandable. However, there is still one sentence I don't understand: "Maybe he can also stuck off my know from the company". What do you mean with that?
    – Philipp
    yesterday






  • 4




    Yikes. You might be better off just leaving things as they are. Does your spouse know what you did?
    – Joe Strazzere
    yesterday








  • 1




    does your father in law know that something was stolen? This will affect the possibilities you have
    – LaughU
    yesterday






  • 1




    This may be worth getting an opinion from law.SE on what liability you've got, and the best way to protect yourself. I'm not sure losing his trust is the biggest worry you should have about being caught.
    – Bilkokuya
    yesterday










  • Why did you steal? Not that it is ever allowed to steal, but some people steal for profit, some for survival, some for their kids to eat.
    – Zorkolot
    yesterday








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I fixed the grammar in your question to make it more understandable. However, there is still one sentence I don't understand: "Maybe he can also stuck off my know from the company". What do you mean with that?
– Philipp
yesterday




I fixed the grammar in your question to make it more understandable. However, there is still one sentence I don't understand: "Maybe he can also stuck off my know from the company". What do you mean with that?
– Philipp
yesterday




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Yikes. You might be better off just leaving things as they are. Does your spouse know what you did?
– Joe Strazzere
yesterday






Yikes. You might be better off just leaving things as they are. Does your spouse know what you did?
– Joe Strazzere
yesterday






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does your father in law know that something was stolen? This will affect the possibilities you have
– LaughU
yesterday




does your father in law know that something was stolen? This will affect the possibilities you have
– LaughU
yesterday




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1




This may be worth getting an opinion from law.SE on what liability you've got, and the best way to protect yourself. I'm not sure losing his trust is the biggest worry you should have about being caught.
– Bilkokuya
yesterday




This may be worth getting an opinion from law.SE on what liability you've got, and the best way to protect yourself. I'm not sure losing his trust is the biggest worry you should have about being caught.
– Bilkokuya
yesterday












Why did you steal? Not that it is ever allowed to steal, but some people steal for profit, some for survival, some for their kids to eat.
– Zorkolot
yesterday




Why did you steal? Not that it is ever allowed to steal, but some people steal for profit, some for survival, some for their kids to eat.
– Zorkolot
yesterday










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Put the cash in an envelope, add an anonymous note telling of your regret for this theft and drop it off in his mailbox. Don't use a handwritten note, don't drop it off where only few people have access to (like his office), don't send it via mail since it could get stolen.



A case could be made for honesty, but (as you guessed yourself) this could have serious consequences both for your professional and your private life, so I cannot in good conscience urge you to do that.






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    If you were able to steal money in a way nobody would know where it had gone, can you not reverse the process and add money in the way that nobody would know from where it came?



    Add the money slowly until you return the amount you took (plus a little interest).






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      I would advice against this. Companies have accounting systems that are required to show exactly where money came from or was spent (down to the cent). Stealing money is bad enough, but can be explained. Adding money that was never registered in the accounting system could add another nightmare if the company ever has do undergo financial auditing.
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    Put the cash in an envelope, add an anonymous note telling of your regret for this theft and drop it off in his mailbox. Don't use a handwritten note, don't drop it off where only few people have access to (like his office), don't send it via mail since it could get stolen.



    A case could be made for honesty, but (as you guessed yourself) this could have serious consequences both for your professional and your private life, so I cannot in good conscience urge you to do that.






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      Put the cash in an envelope, add an anonymous note telling of your regret for this theft and drop it off in his mailbox. Don't use a handwritten note, don't drop it off where only few people have access to (like his office), don't send it via mail since it could get stolen.



      A case could be made for honesty, but (as you guessed yourself) this could have serious consequences both for your professional and your private life, so I cannot in good conscience urge you to do that.






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        Put the cash in an envelope, add an anonymous note telling of your regret for this theft and drop it off in his mailbox. Don't use a handwritten note, don't drop it off where only few people have access to (like his office), don't send it via mail since it could get stolen.



        A case could be made for honesty, but (as you guessed yourself) this could have serious consequences both for your professional and your private life, so I cannot in good conscience urge you to do that.






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        Put the cash in an envelope, add an anonymous note telling of your regret for this theft and drop it off in his mailbox. Don't use a handwritten note, don't drop it off where only few people have access to (like his office), don't send it via mail since it could get stolen.



        A case could be made for honesty, but (as you guessed yourself) this could have serious consequences both for your professional and your private life, so I cannot in good conscience urge you to do that.







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            If you were able to steal money in a way nobody would know where it had gone, can you not reverse the process and add money in the way that nobody would know from where it came?



            Add the money slowly until you return the amount you took (plus a little interest).






            share|improve this answer

















            • 8




              I would advice against this. Companies have accounting systems that are required to show exactly where money came from or was spent (down to the cent). Stealing money is bad enough, but can be explained. Adding money that was never registered in the accounting system could add another nightmare if the company ever has do undergo financial auditing.
              – Elmy
              yesterday










            • they know that money had stolen but don't know who had stolen
              – banneen beno
              10 mins ago















            up vote
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            If you were able to steal money in a way nobody would know where it had gone, can you not reverse the process and add money in the way that nobody would know from where it came?



            Add the money slowly until you return the amount you took (plus a little interest).






            share|improve this answer

















            • 8




              I would advice against this. Companies have accounting systems that are required to show exactly where money came from or was spent (down to the cent). Stealing money is bad enough, but can be explained. Adding money that was never registered in the accounting system could add another nightmare if the company ever has do undergo financial auditing.
              – Elmy
              yesterday










            • they know that money had stolen but don't know who had stolen
              – banneen beno
              10 mins ago













            up vote
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            up vote
            1
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            If you were able to steal money in a way nobody would know where it had gone, can you not reverse the process and add money in the way that nobody would know from where it came?



            Add the money slowly until you return the amount you took (plus a little interest).






            share|improve this answer












            If you were able to steal money in a way nobody would know where it had gone, can you not reverse the process and add money in the way that nobody would know from where it came?



            Add the money slowly until you return the amount you took (plus a little interest).







            share|improve this answer












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              I would advice against this. Companies have accounting systems that are required to show exactly where money came from or was spent (down to the cent). Stealing money is bad enough, but can be explained. Adding money that was never registered in the accounting system could add another nightmare if the company ever has do undergo financial auditing.
              – Elmy
              yesterday










            • they know that money had stolen but don't know who had stolen
              – banneen beno
              10 mins ago














            • 8




              I would advice against this. Companies have accounting systems that are required to show exactly where money came from or was spent (down to the cent). Stealing money is bad enough, but can be explained. Adding money that was never registered in the accounting system could add another nightmare if the company ever has do undergo financial auditing.
              – Elmy
              yesterday










            • they know that money had stolen but don't know who had stolen
              – banneen beno
              10 mins ago








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            I would advice against this. Companies have accounting systems that are required to show exactly where money came from or was spent (down to the cent). Stealing money is bad enough, but can be explained. Adding money that was never registered in the accounting system could add another nightmare if the company ever has do undergo financial auditing.
            – Elmy
            yesterday




            I would advice against this. Companies have accounting systems that are required to show exactly where money came from or was spent (down to the cent). Stealing money is bad enough, but can be explained. Adding money that was never registered in the accounting system could add another nightmare if the company ever has do undergo financial auditing.
            – Elmy
            yesterday












            they know that money had stolen but don't know who had stolen
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