Is there a proverb to express “You are too late and it's your own fault.”?





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In Lithuanian language there is a proverb that translated word-for-word would say "The train does not wait for the shitting ones."



While sounding somewhat rude, it is perfect for expressing: "You are too late, and that's your own fault."



Is there any proverb in English that could convey the same idea?










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    I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
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    Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
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In Lithuanian language there is a proverb that translated word-for-word would say "The train does not wait for the shitting ones."



While sounding somewhat rude, it is perfect for expressing: "You are too late, and that's your own fault."



Is there any proverb in English that could convey the same idea?










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    I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
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    Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
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In Lithuanian language there is a proverb that translated word-for-word would say "The train does not wait for the shitting ones."



While sounding somewhat rude, it is perfect for expressing: "You are too late, and that's your own fault."



Is there any proverb in English that could convey the same idea?










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In Lithuanian language there is a proverb that translated word-for-word would say "The train does not wait for the shitting ones."



While sounding somewhat rude, it is perfect for expressing: "You are too late, and that's your own fault."



Is there any proverb in English that could convey the same idea?







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    I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
    – Headblender
    yesterday






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    Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
    – Peter A. Schneider
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    I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
    – Headblender
    yesterday






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    Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
    – Peter A. Schneider
    yesterday








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I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
– Headblender
yesterday




I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
– Headblender
yesterday




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Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
– Peter A. Schneider
yesterday




Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
– Peter A. Schneider
yesterday










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More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




(idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose






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    Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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    Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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Time and tide wait for no man, is an English proverb with a similar meaning.






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    I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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I can think of two that might be appropriate.



Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
they have done




Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.






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    A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
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A day late and a dollar short



is another idiom meaning




late and ill-prepared




There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title






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    The early bird gets the worm.




    Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)






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      “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
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      I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
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    Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




    That train has left the station.




    (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



    Broadly defined:




    That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




    https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



    It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



    And regarding the [pooping] ones...



    "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



    Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.






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    • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
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    • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
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    • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
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      My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
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    How about




    He who hesitates is lost




    I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



    https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost






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      I've once heard the latin saying :




      Tarde venientibus ossa.




      Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



      This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.






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      • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
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      If you say




      Too little, too late




      you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



      https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/too-little-too-late






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        @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed". A common variant is "You missed the boat".






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          More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




          (idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




          https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose






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            Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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            Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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          More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




          (idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




          https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose






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            Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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            Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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          More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




          (idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




          https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose






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          More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




          (idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




          https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose







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            Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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            Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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            Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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            Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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          Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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          Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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          Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
          – Michael
          20 hours ago




          Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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            I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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            I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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            I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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            @justhalf It's really not obligatory. You could just ... not post xkcd links. It's not even a funny comic...
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            I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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            @justhalf It's really not obligatory. You could just ... not post xkcd links. It's not even a funny comic...
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          I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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          I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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          I can think of two that might be appropriate.



          Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
          According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




          said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
          they have done




          Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
          The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




          A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




          Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.






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            A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
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          • @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
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          I can think of two that might be appropriate.



          Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
          According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




          said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
          they have done




          Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
          The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




          A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




          Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.






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            A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
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          • @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
            – smci
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          I can think of two that might be appropriate.



          Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
          According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




          said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
          they have done




          Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
          The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




          A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




          Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.






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          I can think of two that might be appropriate.



          Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
          According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




          said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
          they have done




          Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
          The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




          A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




          Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.







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            A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
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          • @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
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            A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
            – Paul Johnson
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          • @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
            – smci
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          A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
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          A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
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          @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
          – smci
          16 hours ago




          @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
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          A day late and a dollar short



          is another idiom meaning




          late and ill-prepared




          There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title






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            A day late and a dollar short



            is another idiom meaning




            late and ill-prepared




            There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title






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              up vote
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              A day late and a dollar short



              is another idiom meaning




              late and ill-prepared




              There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title






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              A day late and a dollar short



              is another idiom meaning




              late and ill-prepared




              There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title







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                  The early bird gets the worm.




                  Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)






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                    “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
                    – KannE
                    2 days ago






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                    I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
                    – Darrel Hoffman
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                  • And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
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                  The early bird gets the worm.




                  Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)






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                    “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
                    – KannE
                    2 days ago






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                    I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
                    – Darrel Hoffman
                    2 days ago










                  • And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
                    – RedSonja
                    yesterday













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                  The early bird gets the worm.




                  Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)






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                  The early bird gets the worm.




                  Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)







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                  • 7




                    “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
                    – KannE
                    2 days ago






                  • 12




                    I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
                    – Darrel Hoffman
                    2 days ago










                  • And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
                    – RedSonja
                    yesterday














                  • 7




                    “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
                    – KannE
                    2 days ago






                  • 12




                    I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
                    – Darrel Hoffman
                    2 days ago










                  • And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
                    – RedSonja
                    yesterday








                  7




                  7




                  “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
                  – KannE
                  2 days ago




                  “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
                  – KannE
                  2 days ago




                  12




                  12




                  I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
                  – Darrel Hoffman
                  2 days ago




                  I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
                  – Darrel Hoffman
                  2 days ago












                  And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
                  – RedSonja
                  yesterday




                  And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
                  – RedSonja
                  yesterday










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                  Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




                  That train has left the station.




                  (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



                  Broadly defined:




                  That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




                  https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



                  It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



                  And regarding the [pooping] ones...



                  "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



                  Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.






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                  • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                    – Spagirl
                    2 days ago












                  • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                    – KannE
                    2 days ago












                  • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                    – Spagirl
                    2 days ago






                  • 1




                    My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                    – J.R.
                    yesterday















                  up vote
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                  Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




                  That train has left the station.




                  (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



                  Broadly defined:




                  That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




                  https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



                  It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



                  And regarding the [pooping] ones...



                  "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



                  Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.






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                  • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                    – Spagirl
                    2 days ago












                  • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                    – KannE
                    2 days ago












                  • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                    – Spagirl
                    2 days ago






                  • 1




                    My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                    – J.R.
                    yesterday













                  up vote
                  8
                  down vote










                  up vote
                  8
                  down vote









                  Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




                  That train has left the station.




                  (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



                  Broadly defined:




                  That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




                  https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



                  It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



                  And regarding the [pooping] ones...



                  "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



                  Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.






                  share|improve this answer














                  Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




                  That train has left the station.




                  (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



                  Broadly defined:




                  That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




                  https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



                  It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



                  And regarding the [pooping] ones...



                  "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



                  Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.







                  share|improve this answer














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                  answered 2 days ago









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                  • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                    – Spagirl
                    2 days ago












                  • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                    – KannE
                    2 days ago












                  • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                    – Spagirl
                    2 days ago






                  • 1




                    My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                    – J.R.
                    yesterday


















                  • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                    – Spagirl
                    2 days ago












                  • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                    – KannE
                    2 days ago












                  • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                    – Spagirl
                    2 days ago






                  • 1




                    My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                    – J.R.
                    yesterday
















                  Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                  – Spagirl
                  2 days ago






                  Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                  – Spagirl
                  2 days ago














                  @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                  – KannE
                  2 days ago






                  @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                  – KannE
                  2 days ago














                  I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                  – Spagirl
                  2 days ago




                  I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                  – Spagirl
                  2 days ago




                  1




                  1




                  My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                  – J.R.
                  yesterday




                  My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                  – J.R.
                  yesterday










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                  How about




                  He who hesitates is lost




                  I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



                  https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost






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                    How about




                    He who hesitates is lost




                    I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



                    https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost






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                      up vote
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                      How about




                      He who hesitates is lost




                      I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



                      https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost






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                      How about




                      He who hesitates is lost




                      I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



                      https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost







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                          I've once heard the latin saying :




                          Tarde venientibus ossa.




                          Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



                          This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.






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                          • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
                            – Simon G.
                            2 days ago















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                          I've once heard the latin saying :




                          Tarde venientibus ossa.




                          Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



                          This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.






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                          • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
                            – Simon G.
                            2 days ago













                          up vote
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                          up vote
                          4
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                          I've once heard the latin saying :




                          Tarde venientibus ossa.




                          Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



                          This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.






                          share|improve this answer












                          I've once heard the latin saying :




                          Tarde venientibus ossa.




                          Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



                          This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.







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                          • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
                            – Simon G.
                            2 days ago


















                          • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
                            – Simon G.
                            2 days ago
















                          My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
                          – Simon G.
                          2 days ago




                          My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
                          – Simon G.
                          2 days ago










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                          If you say




                          Too little, too late




                          you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



                          https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/too-little-too-late






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                            If you say




                            Too little, too late




                            you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



                            https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/too-little-too-late






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                              If you say




                              Too little, too late




                              you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



                              https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/too-little-too-late






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                              If you say




                              Too little, too late




                              you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



                              https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/too-little-too-late







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                                  @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed". A common variant is "You missed the boat".






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                                    @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed". A common variant is "You missed the boat".






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                                      @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed". A common variant is "You missed the boat".






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                                      @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed". A common variant is "You missed the boat".







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